Day I Turned Uncool Confessions of a Reluctant Grown-Up

Confession: "I played golf." Hole in None Like many reluctant grown-ups, I've always had an aversion to the activity of golf. As a kid, I didn't even get what was so great about miniature golf, at least not until I figured out how to climb into the windmill and set off the hole-in-one bell. But normal golf? To my way of thinking, it was best left to nursing-home patients who didn't have enough stamina for bingo. Imagine my surprise when some of my own best friends began giving a shit about the U.S. Open. Or worse, when some of my own best friends began turning into golfers themselves. Lately, they've all been peer-pressuring me into participating. "Dan, you gotta try it," they say. "Once you try it, you'll want to do it again and again." This was the way they used to talk about Xtasy. And let me tell you, they were right about that. My day of golf began on the driving range, where I was greeted by my instructor, Ben, a toothsome, Casual Friday kind of guy in Dockers, a striped polo shirt, and those two-tone saddle shoes favored by high school cheerleaders. Looking around, I noticed that almost everyone on the range was also wearing the cheerleader shoes, not to mention a spectacular array of devil-may-care trousers. I myself sported jeans and high-tops, but Ben assured me that I wasn't violating any dress codes since I was also wearing a "soft-collar shirt." I assured Ben that, to the best of my knowledge, I do not own any hard-collar shirts. I liked Ben. He had a pleasant laugh and the patient demeanor of a special ed. teacher. Which was a very good thing, since I was going to be his pupil. "Okay! First we'll work on our stance," Ben began, handing me a pitching wedge, which I assumed meant you're supposed to swing it like a baseball bat, which was one of many faulty assumptions I made throughout the day. "Now, flex your knees and stick your seat way out." I appreciated Ben's use of the word "seat," but I frankly found this stance to be a bit swish. Without really thinking about it, I assumed a sort of GI Joe stance insteada chest out, shoulders back kind of look. "We've really got to work on loosening you up," said Ben. After giving up on the stance, we moved on to the grip. Ben explained that the first grip we'd learn was the Varden Overlap Grip, which I found scary because it led me to believe there would be other grips. And there were. There was the interlock grip, the ten-finger grip, a grip where you're supposed to put your thumb over your index finger, another where you put your index finger over your thumb, and numerous other grips best suited to the double-jointed. I finally settled on the Zevin Death Grip, so-named because it prevented Ben from reconfiguring my fingers into any further grips. At some point I asked Ben if we might whack a few balls before nightfall. He cheerfully obliged, demonstrating proper alignment by sticking out his seat, taking a swing, and sending his ball soaring into the solar system. Now that was pretty awesome, I thought. Then it was my turn. He handed me a seven-iron, but he may as well have handed me a weed-whacker, since the only thing I sent soaring was a large clump of driving range. This was identified as a "divot shot" by Ben, and it turned out to be my major strength. Far be it from me to boast, but my hand-eye coordination was so consistent that I doubt the driving range has been the same since I left. Unless they've resodded. "Okay! I want you to really concentrate on loosening up." Ben reiterated this advice as I drove our golf cart around theZevin, Dan is the author of 'Day I Turned Uncool Confessions of a Reluctant Grown-Up' with ISBN 9780812967227 and ISBN 0812967224.